If your little one resists bath time or toothbrushing, it might be time to call in... the Stinky Monster! This mischievous creature loves the smell of unwashed kids and can’t resist chasing, tickling, kissing, or cuddling them (always with consent, of course).
The goal? To get them clean before the Stinky Monster catches them - or maybe to trick the monster by washing away their "stink." Parents can adapt the energy to match the moment - silly and high-energy when motivation is low, or gentle and cozy when a softer touch is needed.
Beyond the laughter, this playful approach helps kids feel in control, learn about consent, and transform a daily task into a moment of connection.
Announce that the Stinky Monster is coming and sniffs out smelly kids!
Decide together what kind of play feels right - chasing, tickling, kissing, or hugging (with consent).
Get ready for giggles and movement!
Take on the role of the Stinky Monster, sniffing dramatically and saying things like, "Mmm... I smell a stinky kid who hasn’t brushed their teeth!"
Playfully chase or approach your child - give them the option to run, giggle, or invite you closer. Play with different monster "attacks" - catches, cuddles, tickles or kisses! And always be aware of boundaries and consent.
When they wash, brush, or scrub, react big - "Oh no! My delicious stink is disappearing!"
Once they’re clean, pretend to be confused or faint dramatically: "Yuck! You smell too good for me!"
Fresh Monster: Flip the script: become the Fresh Monster who gives gentle hugs to clean kids.
Empowerment Twist: Let your child play the Stinky Monster next time! When you weave fun into moments that aren't just for cooperation, your playful connection stays genuine and is more impactful during the stressful moments.
Costume Play: Add a silly hat or towel cape for extra drama.
